Why Black Women Think the Way They Do

The buzz in the street amongst women is that they are soooo educated & successful that no black man meets their standards.

But that's a totally different tune I'm hearing from black men. Black men say the overall mindset of black women is disgustingly dysfunctional; black women don't respect manhood; black women berate 'straight' men and uplift 'gay' men; black women are physically abusive (will jump in your face like a man); and black women just embrace every characteristic of a classic whore.

Okay so why the discrepancy? Well, black women are living behind a veil of deception. The deception of the "Independent Woman" persona.

After living a few decades, I've come to the shocking realization that the "Independent Woman" persona was a lie; she never existed. The Independent Woman was just a caricature created to steer black women away from the true prize in life: peace and the security of a quality man.

And this lie was fed through movies and music of the 1980's and 1990's; and yes it still continues until this very day. Shout out to Nicki Minaj, 'Pills N Potions.'

I just wish more black women would begin to think about why their lives are crappy; instead of just blaming it on black men not being men. It's much deeper than that.

The movies and music of the 80's and 90's set the stage for our issues:

• Colorism (the hatred dark-skinned women and light-skinned women have for each other)
• Feminism/Lesbianism (Independent woman; don't need a man; I can do bad all by myself)
• Hatred for the black man (they ain't no good; they abuse women; deadbeat fathers)

Below I've listed movies and music artists that were influential in molding the dysfunctional lifestyle of today's black woman. If you think about the movie plots and the lyrical nature of the songs, you will begin to see how your uncontrollable emotions, your overwhelming sense of loneliness, your desire for women, your belief that black men ain't no good, and your sex drive all stems from the music and movies you grew up watching and hearing.

1980's Movies

• The Color Purple (promoted feminism, lesbianism, and hatred for the black man)
• School Daze (promoted colorism)

1980's Music Artists

• Salt & Pepper (promoted feminism & sexual promiscuity)
• Keith Sweat (promoted sexual promiscuity and image of the black man as breeder)
• Bobbi Brown (promoted sexual promiscuity and image of the black man as breeder)
• LL Cool J (promoted sexual promiscuity)

1990's Movies

• Waiting to Exhale (promoted hatred for the black man and the no-good black man stereotype)
• The Players Club (promoted sexual promiscuity and hoochie culture)
• Love Jones (promoted drama-filled relationships)
• How Stella Got Her Groove Back (promoted sexual promiscuity and Cougarism)
• The Bodyguard (promoted white man as savior and swirling)
• What's Love Got to Do with It (promoted the no-good black man stereotype)
• Soul Food (promoted the stereotype of the strong black woman and the no-good black man stereotype)

1990's Music Artists

• Mary J. Blige (promoted Black woman victim mentality)
• Lil Kim (promoted women being whores)
• R Kelly (promoted sexual promiscuity and image of the black man as breeder)
• Jodeci (promoted sexual promiscuity and image of the black man as breeder)
• TLC (promoted feminism & sexual promiscuity)
• Usher (promoted sexual promiscuity specifically among teenagers)

To undo the damage of years of feeding your mind the wrong things, get your copy of Sexy Is Not Enough. I recommend this ebook for all black women struggling to have the man and life they always wanted.

Leaders of Black Woman Thought (1980's and 1990's)